5 Signs That A Relationship Is Over

Relationships are fragile and not everyone you meet is destined
to be your soul mate.

 Relationships are fragile and not everyone you meet is destined
to be your soul mate. But, that's the good thing about dating.
You can meet different people so that you will know when the
right person does come along. So, what are some of the
indications that your relationship may be headed south? Take a
look at the following 5 signs and see if your love will pass the
test.

Inconvenience. Does your partner all of a sudden act as though
making time for you is a burden? If you feel like your
sweetheart cannot or will not fit you into their busy schedule,
there may be a reason. If you're spending more and more time
apart, it may be time to make the distance permanent.

Defensiveness. When your mate isn't where he/she is supposed
to be and then becomes defensive when asked about it, you may
have a problem. This may be a sign of cheating or just plain
out dishonesty but, either way, it's a good indication that the
relationship is in trouble.

Dishonesty. If someone deceives you, it's not okay. Whether
it's something that you can forgive or not, that's a personal
decision. Regardless of the deceit or it's severity, the fact
that your partner was dishonest is not an indication that the
relationship is heading in the right direction. Why did this
person deceive you and why did they believe it was okay? If
this situation isn't corrected, the relationship is just as
good as finished either way you look at it.

Constant arguments. If you and your mate are always bickering,
ask yourself what has changed within the relationship to create
all of the hostility. If nitpicking is a problem, why does it
seem as though the other person is always trying to start an
argument? If there are legitimate reasons for the
disagreements, what are they and what lead to their
development? In some cases, people just change and may even
grow apart. If your occasional argument has turned into a
daily habit, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and
try to determine whether or not these issues can or will ever
be resolved.

The rumor mill. Rumors are rumors and sometimes they may be
just that. But some say there is a little bit of truth to
every one. If people are talking about your mate, listen to
what they are saying and decide for yourself whether or not
there is any credibility to their statements. When you're in
love, your judgement may be clouded and you may even be angry
at those who are talking. In deciding who and what to believe,
first consider who is doing the talking. Is it someone that
cares for you and has always had your best interest at heart?
If so, take a good listen to what they are saying. This
doesn't mean that you should believe everything that you hear
and, by that same token, you shouldn't disbelieve it either.

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